{"id":93246,"date":"2025-12-02T21:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-12-02T19:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/?p=93246"},"modified":"2025-12-02T11:26:27","modified_gmt":"2025-12-02T09:26:27","slug":"breakup-season","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/breakup-season\/","title":{"rendered":"It\u2019s Officially Breakup Season: What You Should Not Ignore"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:56.333333333333%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:56.333333333333%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:56.4%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-8::before{padding-top:75%; }img#mv-trellis-img-8{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p>It seems that September, October, and November have become our unofficial breakup months.&nbsp;It&rsquo;s when summer flings begin to fizzle out, and suddenly, everyone&rsquo;s looking for the exit.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever the reason, it&rsquo;s <strong>not a coincidence<\/strong> that many of us go through breakups during these very months.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Season change, life gets real again, and now we begin to see that relationships actually take work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are the facts you should know about this period &ndash; remember them for next year!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Post-Summer Clarity<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92113\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92113\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92113 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/zodiac-magnetism-7-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>We&rsquo;re naturally more spontaneous in the summer. Vacation adventures and flings make love look like a fun playground. But once fall arrives, the fun begins to fade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many realize that what felt like a perfect summer romance was just a fun distraction, and not something they&rsquo;re ready to commit to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The excitement of no strings attached wears off, and <strong>reality hits<\/strong>: Is this even going anywhere?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plus, most of us are far less social during these colder months than we were in the summer. The spark you felt with your summer fling now looks like just a season illusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, if someone&rsquo;s been ghosting you or is actually breaking up with you during <strong>September\/October<\/strong>, it&rsquo;s probably because the relationship was temporary to begin with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They&rsquo;re over that summer high &ndash; and you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Holiday Pressure<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-93176\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-93176\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree.png 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-1024x683.png 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-18x12.png 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-960x640.png 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-1080x720.png 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-170x113.png 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-93176 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree.png\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree.png\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree.png 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-1024x683.png 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-18x12.png 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-960x640.png 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-1080x720.png 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/christmas-evergreen-tree-170x113.png 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/\">&copy; Angelynum<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>As winter holidays approach, many of us get a sense that we must <strong>escriba a <\/strong>some <strong>big decisions<\/strong> and turn our lives around before the new year.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With Christmas and New Year&rsquo;s Eve looming, and Valentine&rsquo;s Day being just around the corner too, some people would much rather break things off quietly before they get out of hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dating is one thing, but deciding to spend these beloved holidays with someone kind of reeks of <strong>compromiso<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nobody wants to be stuck planning joint holiday dinners with someone they&rsquo;re not into that much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Breaking up before the holiday rush gives people a clean getaway, allowing them to avoid awkward family gatherings and forced romantic gestures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The End of the Year Reflection<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92170\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"676\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light.jpg\" alt=\"attractive girl light\" class=\"wp-image-92170\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-1080x608.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-170x96.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"676\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20676'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='676'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"attractive girl light\" class=\"wp-image-92170 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-1080x608.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/attractive-light-170x96.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>As the year winds down, many people start reflecting on what they want from life. We rethink our career goals, personal growth, and yes, relationships!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This introspection often leads to some <strong>tough realizations<\/strong>, and breaking up feels like the easiest way to start with a clean slate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En <strong>&ldquo;new year, new me&rdquo;<\/strong> mindset doesn&rsquo;t leave much room for unresolved baggage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s a bittersweet moment of clarity, and the important thing to understand is that no one is looking to hurt someone&rsquo;s feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s just that we start taking our goals seriously for this short period of time, and feel more inclined than ever to be honest with ourselves and others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Seeking Comfort and Familiarity<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92690\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92690\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92690 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/mothering-partner-4-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>As the temperature drops, so does our motivation to work on our relationships.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of dealing with issues head-on, many of us retreat into <strong>cozy routines<\/strong>, consisting of Netflix, takeout, and ignoring our problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We&rsquo;re cold and tired, and most of the day is dark, so the enthusiasm we had when we entered our flings and relationships is no more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&rsquo;s why a lot of people break up now, because they can&rsquo;t bring themselves to work on their relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plus, the winter makes us feel<strong> lonely and isolated<\/strong> by default, and it can be tempting to cling to someone for comfort &ndash; but the longer it goes on, the harder it is to leave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Very soon, the cracks in the relationship become impossible to ignore, and the whole thing falls apart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Life Gets Overwhelming<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-90884\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1068\" height=\"712\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3.jpg\" alt=\"desensitized by internet\" class=\"wp-image-90884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3.jpg 1068w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1068\" height=\"712\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201068%20712'%3E%3Crect%20width='1068'%20height='712'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"desensitized by internet\" class=\"wp-image-90884 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3.jpg 1068w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/desensitized-internet-3-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Unsplash<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Fall and winter are also when life gets super busy, which is such an unfortunate setup, given how little motivation we have during this period.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People&rsquo;s focus shifts from maintaining their relationships to managing <strong>deadlines and responsibilities<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, couples often drift apart and break up during this season because they&rsquo;re too exhausted to communicate and put effort into their relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Resentment can build, as one partner could be <strong>feeling neglected<\/strong>. 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Unsplash<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>This is the season of change, and not everyone is comfortable with that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We might realize that we&rsquo;re not ready to commit to growing and changing with the person we&rsquo;re dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Breaking up can seem like a much<strong> easier alternative<\/strong> to working through all the issues.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These difficult conversations about the future can be tough and scary, so some people choose to run away before it gets that serious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And again, the end of the year approaches, and breaking up can feel like a way to regain control of our lives before the calendar turns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Weather Blues<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92792\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"564\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92792\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-768x433.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-170x96.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"564\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201000%20564'%3E%3Crect%20width='1000'%20height='564'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92792 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-768x433.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/fake-friends-6-170x96.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; 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When fall arrives, that burnout often reaches its peak, and the relationship ends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s easier to part ways than to rekindle the spark. Also, the change in weather can affect us as well, as we become <strong>cold and distant<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s a bitter and tired ending of something that once seemed promising.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Looking Forward to New Beginnings<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92779\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1152\" height=\"864\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6.jpg\" alt=\"feminine winter year\" class=\"wp-image-92779\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-16x12.jpg 16w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-728x546.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-960x720.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-1080x810.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-170x128.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1152\" height=\"864\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201152%20864'%3E%3Crect%20width='1152'%20height='864'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"feminine winter year\" class=\"wp-image-92779 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-8\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-16x12.jpg 16w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-728x546.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-960x720.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-1080x810.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/autumn-winter-6-170x128.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Unsplash<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>We&rsquo;re constantly bombarded with endless options when it comes to dating, and this makes commitment even harder for some people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, during this tired season, many feel the pressure to either settle down or give up &ndash; and that&rsquo;s when breakups happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ending things and freeing the space in our lives for some new beginning seems much more interesting than working on what we already have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The cycle of <strong>dating fatigue<\/strong> hits hardest during these months, making people more likely to cut ties altogether.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, watch out for the breakup season &ndash; social exhaustion plays a huge role in ending relationships, and you shouldn&rsquo;t ignore it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems that September, October, and November have become our unofficial breakup months.&nbsp;It&rsquo;s when summer flings begin to fizzle out, and suddenly, everyone&rsquo;s looking for &hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":93248,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"syndication_tool_enabled":true,"syndication_tool_title":"","syndication_tool_excerpt":"","syndication_tool_featured_image":0,"syndication_tool_publish_date":"","syndication_tool_schema_types":["article"],"syndication_tool_backlink_enable":false,"syndication_tool_ai_disclosure_enable":false,"disable-in-feed":false,"article-schema-type":"Article","disable-critical-css":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[179,181],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-93246","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-advice","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93246","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=93246"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93246\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":93922,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93246\/revisions\/93922"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93248"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=93246"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=93246"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=93246"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}