{"id":51223,"date":"2024-06-05T15:03:14","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T15:03:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/?p=51223"},"modified":"2024-06-05T15:03:14","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T15:03:14","slug":"embracing-the-darkness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/embracing-the-darkness\/","title":{"rendered":"Embracing The Darkness: Shocking Benefits Of Your Negative Self"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:46.953125%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:59.5%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:66.5%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}<\/style><p>Have you ever wondered how some people may be <strong>negativo<\/strong> and sad from time to time, yet they get everything they want and are successful in their <strong>spiritualit\u00e0<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<p>This is because learning how to <strong>abbraccio<\/strong> your negative side can be a beneficial step towards enlightenment.<\/p>\n<h2>Why Do We Fear Negativity?<\/h2>\n<p><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51227\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1202\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-300x141.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-1024x481.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-768x361.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-2048x962.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-18x8.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-960x451.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-1080x507.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-170x80.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-150x70.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-51227 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%202560%201202'%3E%3Crect%20width='2560'%20height='1202'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1202\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-scaled.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-scaled.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-300x141.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-1024x481.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-768x361.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-2048x962.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-18x8.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-960x451.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-1080x507.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-170x80.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_2216772877-150x70.jpg 150w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">Many spiritual gurus always talk about <strong>positivit\u00e0<\/strong> and how we need to stay happy in order to attract better things in life. We have a feeling that if we are sad, <strong>cattivo<\/strong> things will continue to happen to us.<\/p>\n<p>This is why some people are <strong>spaventato<\/strong> to feel bad and immediately start reciting their positive mantras so they do not attract negativity.<\/p>\n<p>However, they forget that negative feelings can also <strong>Aiuto<\/strong> us enormously in our spiritual journeys.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel like you are always trying to push negative feelings away and you are scared of feeling bad, I hope the positive sides of negativity listed below will help you realize how to embrace it.<\/p>\n<p>If we do not deal with negative emotions, we will <strong>sopprimere<\/strong> them, and they will come out at the most vulnerable time, accumulated and stronger than ever. Sooner or later, we will need to deal with them.<\/p>\n<h2>Positive Sides Of Negativity That May Surprise You<\/h2>\n<p>There are many positive sides to negativity. Although this statement may sound <strong>contradictive<\/strong>, it is a powerful notion that is not talked about enough.<\/p>\n<p>We are all humans and we need to know the <strong>buio<\/strong> before we get to know the <strong>luce<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Self-Awareness<\/h3>\n<p><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50104\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50104 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-scaled.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-scaled.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/shutterstock_1721513803-150x100.jpg 150w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">Negativity can help us realize who we are, what <strong>triggers<\/strong> us, and how we deal with <strong>problemi<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Once we get to know who we are deep inside, how we deal with trauma, and how we can overcome it and grow from it &ndash; we are <strong>inarrestabile<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>But it takes one to face their dark side and sit with it, eat with it, and deal with it.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Balance<\/h3>\n<p><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47354\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"happy-sad-woman\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-47354 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"happy-sad-woman\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-scaled.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-scaled.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/happy-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">Even the most spiritual individuals out there are humans and they encounter <strong>terrible<\/strong> <strong>eventi<\/strong> in life constantly. Their car may get stolen, they might make a huge mistake at work, or they simply get sick.<\/p>\n<p>This is a normal part of life, and we need to see negative occurrences in our life as a <strong>bilanciamento<\/strong> force that makes our life &ndash; life. We cannot live isolated in a box where everything is perfect.<\/p>\n<p>We are not perfect and accepting that means we accept our <strong>equilibrato<\/strong> natura.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Motivation To Change<\/h3>\n<p><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-24994\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"714\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-300x178.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-1024x609.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-768x457.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-1536x914.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-2048x1218.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-735x437.jpg 735w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-335x199.jpg 335w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-347x206.jpg 347w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-520x309.jpg 520w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-640x381.jpg 640w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-960x571.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-1080x642.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-24994 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20714'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='714'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"714\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-scaled.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-scaled.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-300x178.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-1024x609.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-768x457.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-1536x914.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-2048x1218.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-735x437.jpg 735w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-335x199.jpg 335w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-347x206.jpg 347w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-520x309.jpg 520w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-640x381.jpg 640w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-960x571.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/strong-woman-sunset-1080x642.jpg 1080w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">Once we face our <strong>dark sides<\/strong>, we are ready to change them. For example, you may always be in toxic relationships and you decide to heal that part of you that attracts them.<\/p>\n<p>You face that part of you, work on it and it motivates you to <strong>cambiamento<\/strong>. This is a shockingly perfect example of how our darkness may lead us to light.<\/p>\n<h2>Mistakes We Make To Ignore Our Negative Side<\/h2>\n<p>There are several mistakes we make during our spiritual journeys that <strong>push negative feelings away<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>These can be heard from &lsquo;fake gurus&rsquo; and &lsquo;spiritual narcissists&rsquo; (people who do not fully understand spirituality and only pretend they do).<\/p>\n<h3>1. Losing Ego As Fast As Possible<\/h3>\n<p>It is usually said that we need to lose our ego completely in order to <strong>risvegliarsi<\/strong> spiritually and become enlightened. This notion can be quite unhealthy, as our ego serves to protect us and give us character.<\/p>\n<p>What they want to say is that our ego should not be in <strong>our focus<\/strong> and we should not live our lives according to it.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Toxic Positivity<\/h3>\n<p><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3122\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"798\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-1024x681.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-1536x1021.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-2048x1362.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-735x489.jpg 735w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-335x223.jpg 335w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-347x231.jpg 347w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-520x346.jpg 520w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-640x426.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3122 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20798'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='798'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"798\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-scaled.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-scaled.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-1024x681.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-1536x1021.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-2048x1362.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-735x489.jpg 735w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-335x223.jpg 335w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-347x231.jpg 347w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-520x346.jpg 520w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/woman-smile-happy-640x426.jpg 640w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><strong>Toxic positivity<\/strong> is another example of not embracing negative emotions. It is a notion that we need to be positive ALL THE TIME in order to attract good things.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine this: you are broken up with and you immediately begin to panic. You are in a terrible mood and you would like to start with positive affirmations to try to save the relationship and win them back.<\/p>\n<p>For days, you <strong>disregard<\/strong> your pain and you want to stay positive. You try to manifest them and send positive energy toward them. However, your gut is in pain and your heart is broken.<\/p>\n<p>Not dealing with pain can cause more <strong>danno<\/strong> than good. You need to cry and let the pain consume you before you start healing, feeling better and potentially manifesting them back.<\/p>\n<p>You cannot manifest from the state of fake positivity.<\/p>\n<h3>3. &lsquo;Being Rational Is Not Spiritual&rsquo;<\/h3>\n<p><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48073\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-48073 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-scaled.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-6\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-scaled.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/man-laptop-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\">Another mistake people who are new to spirituality make is that they think being rational and logical is <strong>not aligned<\/strong> with spirituality.<\/p>\n<p>They think that if they are sad, they can transform it by saying a bunch of <strong>mantras<\/strong> and forcefully feeling good. This is not true, as you need to accept things for what they are, not what they want them to be.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, you can work on becoming better and fixing things using your spirituality, but ignoring the reality is <strong>delusional<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Do not let your spirituality be food for your delusions, rather than food for your<strong> s\u00e9 interiore<\/strong> which needs healing, love, and care. Take time and feel all the emotions you want, and you will be ready to take the next steps towards growth.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever wondered how some people may be negative and sad from time to time, yet they get everything they want and are successful &hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":51225,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"syndication_tool_enabled":false,"syndication_tool_title":"","syndication_tool_excerpt":"","syndication_tool_featured_image":0,"syndication_tool_publish_date":"","syndication_tool_schema_types":[],"syndication_tool_backlink_enable":false,"syndication_tool_ai_disclosure_enable":false,"disable-in-feed":false,"article-schema-type":"Article","disable-critical-css":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[100],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-51223","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51223","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/16"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=51223"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51223\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":51413,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/51223\/revisions\/51413"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/51225"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=51223"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=51223"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=51223"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}