Snooping around for the exact time and date of birth is a universal experience when you’re into someone new!
However, the sun sign only tells you how someone shows up in the world.
If you want to know how they behave when they’re crazy about someone, look at their Mars! It will tell you exactly what their desire looks like!
This planet spills everything: their passions and hidden desires, as well as what makes them feel safe enough to open up about it!
1. Aries
Aries wants to be picked, instantly.
They want to be someone’s first choice, no second thoughts. In a way, their biggest desire is to be desired!
So, how does any of this let you know they’re into you? Their frustration will be palpable.
Show any sign of hesitation, and they’re ready to walk! They might seem impatient or unusually curious about you.
Although we often speak of this sign as a daredevil, they need to feel safe enough to open up about their feelings.
If your attraction to them is anything less than consuming, they might get passive-aggressive or even ghost you.
On the flipside, they treat love as a competitive sport. When they’re really into you, they will create tension and try to provoke you just to feel excited.
2. Taurus
Taurus dreams of being pampered without having to ask for it. They want a partner who pays attention to the little things and delivers.
When they desire someone, you’d have to be really oblivious to miss it.
They bring gifts, make time, initiate physical affection, and spoil you in any way they can think of!
What they give is pretty much what they want in return. They want to be treated like the most important person in their partner’s life.
Give a Taurus consistent comfort and undivided attention, and their devotion to you will last forever.
3. Gemini
Gemini’s deepest wish is to be understood in any form they show up. Sometimes they’re goofy, sometimes dramatic, and sometimes they’re an overthinker.
When they desire someone, they will try to connect with that person through conversation and humor, but also through emotion and serious topics.
They’re checking to see if you’re someone who can accept all the different sides of them.
Being a good listener and visibly enjoying their company is all they need to open up.
Silence and distance make them spiral, so when they’re into you, they’ll always want to be around you, video chat, or text you funny memes.
Gemini falls hardest for someone who’s fascinated by their many interests because for them, true intimacy starts with being heard.
4. Cancer
Cancer wants to feel completely safe with someone. They want a love that feels like comfort and relief, like coming to a warm home after a hard day.
They want a partner who handles their heart gently and never makes them feel like they’re too much.
But when they desire someone new, that person could go months without knowing.
Cancer isn’t ignoring you; they’re watching you. They’re deeply sensitive, so they won’t get too involved unless they know you’re trustworthy.
It’s hard for them because they want true intimacy while being afraid to risk their heart in the process.
But once you become the person they feel safe around, you’ll know it. They’ll want to always be around you, building a shared future.
5. Leo
Leo is among the most confident and unique zodiac signs, but they might become very insecure when they desire someone.
Suddenly, they need all the affirmation in the world, and if you don’t text them as often as they’d like, things might get a bit dramatic.
This sign is constantly worried about being liked. One of the most important things to them is being admired and loved by the person they want.
Compliments are a proof of love, not just something they want out of vanity.
To feel completely safe, they need romantic gestures and adoration. They want you to show them off to everyone.
If your love is celebrated and loud, they don’t want it.
6. Virgo
Virgo struggles to accept themselves just as they are, so they desire someone who can make them feel like they’re enough.
They’ll struggle to believe it, and their perfectionist streak will likely never stop, but they’re terrified of becoming a project for someone else to fix.
Funnily enough, then they’re into you, their expectations of you become grand.
If you can adapt and be responsible, plan dates, be reliable, and respect all that they quietly do for you, they’ll know you’re the one.
The idea is simple: just for once, they want someone to take care of them.
7. Libra
Libra is dreaming of being in the kind of relationship everyone’s jealous of.
They desire a romance that looks and feels beautiful. They want romantic dinners, deep conversations, candles, travels, and great chemistry.
They’re willing to put in a lot of effort, so they need someone who can do the same.
It’s not only the aesthetic they’re after, but balance. They’re scared of being the only one who gives and turning resentful because it’s likely happened to them before.
They want someone who proves, again and again, that romance isn’t dead.
Libra falls for people who put in consistent effort, and even if their expectations can be really high, they happily return the favor.
8. Scorpio
Scorpio doesn’t do lukewarm relationships. When they desire someone, it’s intense and obvious.
They might hesitate to talk about it, but you can’t help but notice.
The first thing that gives them away is their desire to be present in everything you do. They’ll want to befriend your friends, try your hobbies, watch your favorite shows…
Do not entertain them unless you’re serious, because they don’t want any of that casual stuff. If you’re with them, you’re with them.
Anything less than mutual obsession feels like a betrayal to Scorpio.
They will test you, which is another sign that they want you around. They just want to make sure you can be trusted.
9. Sagittarius
Sagittarius is tricky for most people because they want total 自由 そして total 献身 すぐに
They desire a partner who doesn’t try to cage them. If you trust them, they’ll do everything to justify that trust.
Someone who loves adventure and has their own life outside of romance is their ideal type.
Their biggest fear is settling for a same-old, predictable life of picking kids up from school and having Sunday get-togethers with family.
If you’re not the one to make memories with them, better not stand in their way.
So, when they’re into you, Sagittarius will try to see if you can keep up with them first.
They’ll randomly invite you to activities you never considered before, and your response will tell them all they need to know.
10. Capricorn
Capricorn desires a power-couple dynamic with someone as motivated and successful as they are.
They’re honestly frightened of ending up with someone who resents their work dynamic or doesn’t believe in their goals.
Unless you want to conquer the world with them, stay out of their way!
When they’re into you, the beginning stages might feel a bit like a job interview.
They’ll want to hear all about your goals and achievements, and they’ll keep a close eye on your commitment to your work.
People who do things halfway are unattractive to them.
Other than that, they’re very old-school! They want commitment, marriage, kids, a nice house, and someone they can build generational wealth with.
11. Aquarius
Aquarius wants to be loved for being different, not despite it. They desire a partner who’s willing to engage them in strange conversations and be just as non-conforming.
On the other hand, they need a lot of personal space. They have countless interests, and also their social battery typically isn’t too strong.
You’ll know they’re into you when they test how much time you two can spend apart without drifting away.
They’ll also want to know what you’ve got going on because they don’t want a partner who will center their whole life just around the relationship.
They don’t care if anyone else understands the dynamic of your relationship as long as you’re both on the same page.
Break the rules with them, and they will adore you!
12. Pisces
Pisces wants to feel like someone’s muse!
When they desire someone, their first priority is to see how vulnerable that person is willing to get.
They wear their hearts on their sleeves, and so they need their partner to do the same for the connection to feel fair.
If you’re someone who prefers light chat and surface-level topics, their interest in you will disappear pretty quickly.
They desire a romance so deep that it shields them from the ugly world outside.
Make that fantasy feel real, and they won’t be able to get enough of you!
A little Aquarius, devoted to writing and embroidery. Through my writing, I hope to empower readers to align with their true selves and navigate life’s mysteries with confidence.