とは何か？ ベストフレンド? That is the person who you can turn to with anything. Your rock and your steady stream. It’s the one constant in your life that never changes.
Now, don’t get me wrong, that person can also be your partner, but they just can’t provide the things that your best friend does!
If you’ve known your best friend for 5, 10, 15, or even 20 years, chances are that person has seen you through all of your embarrassing phases and your ups and downs.
It’s that one person who always brings wine and ice cream after a break-up, the one who cheers for you the loudest in the crowd and the one who will stand by you at the altar.
But can your best friend be your soulmate? Let’s find out!
Can Your Best Friend Be Your Soulmate?
Of course they can! Usually, when we think about soulmates, we think about romance. That doesn’t have to be the case! We can also have a platonic soulmate.
A platonic soulmate is someone who you share a strong, non-romantic spiritual connection with.
You are able to confide in this person without fear of judgment. They understand you on a deeper level.
If you see any of these signs, chances are you are connected for life!
1. You Fell Like You’ve Known Them Forever
You might not have been friends all your life, maybe you met them in college or even high school, but you feel like you’ve known them forever.
There’s just this familiarity about them that feels like coming home.
2. You Can Be You
We all have different versions of ourselves, in the workplace, at school, amongst different groups of friends, but with them, you are your authentic self.
You’re not ashamed to say the most outrageous things, because you know they’ll laugh そして agree with you, while other people might look at you weird!
Your soulmate will always accept you for who you are and bring out the best in you!
3. You Feel Their Pain
When your best friend is hurt, whether that be over a partner, a lost job or something entirely different, you actually feel their pain.
When my best friend is hurting I know exactly how she feels because I’m all of those things as well (and patiently waiting in the dark for that person.)
4. You See Beyond the Surface
No matter what they display to the world, you know who they actually are. You know their deepest fears and their silliest quirks.
You know what they’re thinking and/or feeling without having to talk to them.
You don’t care about how they act and what other people say about them, because those other people don’t know the real them!
5. They Aren’t Angry If You Don’t Call
Your best friend will never be angry with you if you don’t text or call. You can not talk for ages, but when you do it’ll feel like nothing changed!
Because it didn’t.
You know that they’re still your best friend and they wouldn’t have it any other way!
6. You Tell Them Everything
There’s nothing my best friend doesn’t know. She lives in another city and she’s still caught up on the hottest gossip and everything that goes on in my life!
Even when it’s something serious, your best friend is the first person to know about it. Plus you know that they’ll support you through it!
You can always count on them to lend an ear and amazing advice, even when you’re delusional!
7. They’re the Loudest in the Crowd
Your best friend will support you no matter what. They’ll be sitting on the sidelines cheering for you louder than your momma!
They’ll probably have a big flashy sign with them as well.
It doesn’t matter if they’re romantic or platonic, your soulmate will support you all the way!
8. You Feel Incomplete Without Them
There’s not a world where I can imagine myself without my best friend.
You share a soul connection with this person and if they were ever to leave your life, you’d be incomplete.
What would life be like without a best friend? You definitely won’t be able to answer that one since a life without a best friend is no life at all!
9. They’re Your No. 1 Person
They’re the most important person in your life.
The one you call first when something big happens, the one you bring your partner around first and the one you’d call if your tire got flat even if they don’t know how to change it!
Your best friend is always at the top of your mind and the one you turn to first!
Think About It
If you and your best friend do any of these, then you’re definitely platonic soulmates!
Cherish that friendship and never let them go! They aren’t supposed to find another best friend!
Share your findings with them and determine if you have a soul connection with them!
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