{"id":109000,"date":"2026-05-04T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-04T15:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/?p=109000"},"modified":"2026-05-04T10:07:20","modified_gmt":"2026-05-04T08:07:20","slug":"boyfriend-know-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/boyfriend-know-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Things Your Boyfriend Isn\u2019t Supposed to Know About Your Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:61.166666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:66.69921875%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:56.333333333333%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:66.75%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p>We&rsquo;re all girl&rsquo;s girls in public, but do we actually act that way behind closed doors?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The real <strong>test of your loyalty<\/strong> happens when you&rsquo;re alone with your man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Way too many women casually overshare about their friends, using their deepest secrets as small talk. Even worse, some air their friends&rsquo; dirty laundry to make themselves look more appealing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I won&rsquo;t sugarcoat it: that&rsquo;s <strong>pick me behavior<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are 7 things you should never tell your boyfriend about your friends!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Their Past Mistakes<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-109009\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-109009\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-109009 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-2-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Everyone has a past, and we&rsquo;ve all done things we desperately wish we could take back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s those dumb mistakes you remember late at night that make you cringe at yourself. Only a couple of really close people get to hear about these failures.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How would you feel if someone went on to share your embarrassing past with someone you barely know?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your friend has a past she&rsquo;s genuinely not proud of, it&rsquo;s your holy duty to <strong>keep it to yourself<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u3042\u306a\u305f <strong>sabotage her character<\/strong> in front of your boyfriend when you reveal these things!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He doesn&rsquo;t know the nuances of her personality as you do, and will draw conclusions about who she is based on these mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Protect your friends&rsquo; past like you would want them to protect yours.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Their Personal Flaws<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-109015\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"734\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7.jpg\" alt=\"secrets boyfriend\" class=\"wp-image-109015\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-300x184.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-1024x627.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-768x470.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-960x587.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-1080x661.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-170x104.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"734\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20734'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='734'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"secrets boyfriend\" class=\"wp-image-109015 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-300x184.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-1024x627.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-768x470.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-960x587.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-1080x661.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-7-170x104.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>The pick me instinct is strong; no one denies that. It can be very tempting to subtly compare yourself to other women so your boyfriend can see how much better you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But&hellip; Is it worth <strong>betraying<\/strong> your friends?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even if you want to draw this kind of comparison, you don&rsquo;t do it with your girlfriends!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever their flaws might be, you still like them and want them in your life, so why would you throw them under the bus like that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your friends&rsquo; imperfections aren&rsquo;t a stepping stone to elevate yourself in front of your boyfriend. That&rsquo;s a tacky, cruel betrayal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He might like that you don&rsquo;t share the exact same flaws as your friends, but he sure won&rsquo;t like how <strong>\u5371\u3046\u3044<\/strong> \u305d\u3057\u3066 <strong>untrustworthy<\/strong> you make yourself look.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Their Secrets<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-77102\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-77102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20683'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='683'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-77102 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-scaled.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-1024x683.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-scaled.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/cuples-zodiac-happy-11-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/smiling-couple-having-romantic-date-on-city-street-5910803\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>The personal things your friends share with you are not &ldquo;tea.&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can&rsquo;t use their <strong>shame and insecurities<\/strong> to entertain your boyfriend on a random Tuesday night.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Secrets weigh heavily on us, but there are only so many people we&rsquo;re comfortable with knowing them. That&rsquo;s why we open up to friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spilling these secrets to your partner because you can&rsquo;t think of any other topic is a massive <strong>violation of trust<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He doesn&rsquo;t need to know her private secrets, and truth be told, he probably doesn&rsquo;t care that much to begin with.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&rsquo;re someone&rsquo;s safe person. Don&rsquo;t take that for granted.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Their Private Affairs<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-109013\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-109013\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-109013 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-5-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Your friends&rsquo; personal choices, casual hook-ups, and family drama are none of your boyfriend&rsquo;s business.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He&rsquo;s part of your life, not hers. Her personal affairs shouldn&rsquo;t be shared with anyone outside the <strong>trusted circle<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If she wants to share details about her Tinder date with people other than you, she&rsquo;ll do so herself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s simply inappropriate to act as a spokesperson for her private life, and without her consent. It&rsquo;s a violation of boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Their Opinions About Your Boyfriend<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-109011\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-109011\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3.jpg 750w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20750%20500'%3E%3Crect%20width='750'%20height='500'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-109011 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3.jpg 750w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/boyfriend-friend-secret-3-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>We ask our friends&rsquo; opinions about new partners for a good reason. They&rsquo;re able to <strong>notice red flags<\/strong> and weird behavior that we might have missed because of infatuation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it comes with a rule: You can&rsquo;t go and rattle out their opinions to your boyfriend!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you must say something, give him the generic, &ldquo;She really likes you,&rdquo; and leave it at that. Keep the rest strictly to yourself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Saying too much could cost you your friendship or relationship, or both.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If her opinions aren&rsquo;t favorable, your boyfriend might have a problem with you two being friends. <strong>He&rsquo;ll feel hurt<\/strong> and won&rsquo;t trust her to be around you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You asked for her perspective for your own sake; he doesn&rsquo;t need to know.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. 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You can&rsquo;t always see eye to eye, and at times, they do things that just rile you up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But you know what you shouldn&rsquo;t do? Go to your boyfriend and <strong>trash your friend<\/strong> behind her back!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Again, he doesn&rsquo;t know her as well as you do, and everything you say shapes how he sees her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&rsquo;ll calm down and forgive each other, but he will continue to <strong>question your friendship<\/strong> because of everything you said about her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And this doesn&rsquo;t only paint her in a negative light! You&rsquo;ll make yourself look fickle and <strong>dishonest<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vent in your journal or to a mutual friend, or hell, say it all to her face! But don&rsquo;t sabotage her character.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&rsquo;re all girl&rsquo;s girls in public, but do we actually act that way behind closed doors? 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