{"id":91993,"date":"2025-11-19T18:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-11-19T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/?p=91993"},"modified":"2025-11-19T11:37:53","modified_gmt":"2025-11-19T09:37:53","slug":"types-guys-20s","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/types-guys-20s\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Types of Guys You\u2019ll Date in Your 20s (And How to Survive Them)"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:66.625310173697%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:56.333333333333%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:69.741697416974%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:56.333333333333%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-8::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-8{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p>Your 20s are a time for self-discovery, and that inevitably includes some (read: many) <strong>bad decisions<\/strong> &ndash; especially when it comes to dating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In your search for the one, you&rsquo;ll meet several types of guys; some of them dreamy, others nightmarish, and some just&hellip; there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, here are 8 kinds of men you&rsquo;ll meet in your 20s, and how to survive them <strong>without giving up on love<\/strong> altogether.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. The Good Guy<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92004\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"806\" height=\"537\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92004\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1.jpg 806w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"806\" height=\"537\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20806%20537'%3E%3Crect%20width='806'%20height='537'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92004 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1.jpg 806w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-1-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>This guy is <strong>the golden retriever<\/strong> type. He&rsquo;s sweet and caring, and he genuinely tries, but you just can&rsquo;t bring yourself to find him attractive!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Like, not even a little bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whenever he tries to make a move, you <strong>get the ick<\/strong>, and it&rsquo;s not necessarily his fault.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There simply isn&rsquo;t any chemistry between you two!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Typically, you let it go on for a bit, since you really want to like him because he&rsquo;s great, which then leads to him <strong>catching feelings<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, here&rsquo;s how it plays out: He finally goes for it, and you freeze, because, well, you&rsquo;re just not into him. Then, he never spoke to you again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This type of man you can easily survive; the question actually seems to be &ndash; can he survive you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. The Trouble<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92011\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"676\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92011\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-1080x608.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-170x96.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"676\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20676'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='676'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92011 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-1080x608.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-2-170x96.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>There is a more popular name for this type of guy, but we&rsquo;re not about to use any bad words here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He&rsquo;s the one who looks really good, but that&rsquo;s pretty much it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&rsquo;re attracted to him, you have good banter, the chemistry is through the roof; however, you&rsquo;re <strong>absolutely incompatible<\/strong> in any meaningful way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trying to have a relationship with him &ndash; and you&rsquo;re likely to try in your 20s &ndash; feels like trying to build a house on quicksand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s typically <strong>\u30c9\u30e9\u30de<\/strong> from day one, and it leaves you both exhausted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At some point, and hopefully soon, you will come to realize that you two will never be on the same page.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This type of man is the one who helps you learn the difference between <strong>surface-level chemistry<\/strong> and love.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can survive him by coming to understand that what he has to offer really isn&rsquo;t worth the emotional rollercoaster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. The Love Bomber<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92007\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"813\" height=\"567\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92007\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7.jpg 813w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7-300x209.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7-768x536.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7-170x119.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"813\" height=\"567\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20813%20567'%3E%3Crect%20width='813'%20height='567'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92007 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7.jpg 813w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7-300x209.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7-768x536.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-7-170x119.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>This is the type that drops the &ldquo;I love you&rdquo; on a second date. After a week, you&rsquo;re the soulmate he&rsquo;s waited for his whole life!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And though he can be sweet, he&rsquo;s also a little bit terrifying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He has a well-established <strong>pattern<\/strong>. He love-bombs at first; he wants to see you every day and never misses sending a good morning and a good night text.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then, out of nowhere, he <strong>ghosts you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He&rsquo;s gone for weeks, and by the time he tries to crawl back, you&rsquo;ve already moved on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A relationship with this type of man cannot possibly last longer than three months; it&rsquo;s like an unwritten rule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh, but he will <strong>haunt your social media<\/strong> forever!&nbsp;He&rsquo;ll look at your stories, and even DM you out of the blue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Survive him by recognizing the pattern early; the love-bombing is the only red flag you need to see before leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. The Older Guy<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92008\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92008\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92008 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-8-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>In your 20s, the maturity and stability of older men can seem very attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This type of man approaches you with an attitude that he gets you, unlike men your age. Not to mention, the <strong>age gap<\/strong> kind of feels like an adventure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But then, probably years down the line, you look back and <strong>get creeped out<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The &ldquo;you&rsquo;re so mature for your age&rdquo; line starts to ring quite differently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From a wiser perspective, you come to see that you really weren&rsquo;t that mature for your years &ndash; he just <strong>wasn&rsquo;t mature<\/strong> for his.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He chose you because you were more easily impressed than women his age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Survive him by setting boundaries, and not letting yourself fall for him just because he strokes your ego.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. The Other Older Guy<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-85133\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"676\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-85133\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-1080x608.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-170x96.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"676\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20676'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='676'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-85133 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-1080x608.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/movie-genre-personality-1-170x96.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Unsplash<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>This type of guy is a true <strong>gentleman<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Though he mostly has the <strong>same red flags<\/strong> as the previous one, he actually might get you better than your peers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don&rsquo;t have to tell him to surprise you for your birthday or to take you dancing. He knows what you expect and delivers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His music taste is typically awesome, he&rsquo;s polite, and overall respectful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This one pretty much comes down to your <strong>gut feeling<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If something about him seems performative or dishonest, it&rsquo;s best to step away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep your eyes open, even when you&rsquo;re having a good time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. The Younger Guy<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92010\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4.jpg\" alt=\"type guy\" class=\"wp-image-92010\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"type guy\" class=\"wp-image-92010 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-6\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-4-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>This type of guy either ends up being your best relationship or the one you never even want to talk about again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, the younger guy can turn out to be <strong>surprisingly mature<\/strong>, and just feels like the right fit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Other times, you end up feeling ashamed that you ever dated him because it feels like a huge mistake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This type of man mostly ends up being the <strong>one that got away<\/strong>; you had fun, there was chemistry, he cared, but something got in the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be honest with yourself and own your mistakes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can survive this one by letting go of your regrets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. The Guy With Demons<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92005\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92005\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92005 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-5-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>This type of man is always fighting his demons &ndash; and losing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He&rsquo;s the one who kind of jerks you around by always being <strong>hot and cold<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You two can have the best time together, text constantly, he gives you all the attention in the world &ndash; but the moment you ask for a little vulnerability, he goes poof.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You&rsquo;re left wondering what it all meant; was there actually something real between you, or you just made it all up?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He&rsquo;s a <strong>rollercoaster<\/strong> you didn&rsquo;t sign up for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Survive him by knowing exactly what you want and not accepting less.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At the end of the day, he can&rsquo;t handle his own problems. It&rsquo;s not your job to handle them for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. The One (If You&rsquo;re Lucky)<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-92009\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92009\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201200%20800'%3E%3Crect%20width='1200'%20height='800'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-92009 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-8\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/types-guys-3-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Some women meet this guy in high school, others in their 20s, and some later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the type who enters your life without a warning. And you mostly just vibe with him without any intentions or conscious efforts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are no fireworks, no anxiety, no mess; you&rsquo;re just <strong>\u5feb\u9069<\/strong> and you&rsquo;re being yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At first, you might even doubt if you really like him because it feels too easy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is exactly what people mean when they say that true love comes when you least expect it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He&rsquo;s the one who <strong>feels like home<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You don&rsquo;t need to survive him; you just need to keep him.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your 20s are a time for self-discovery, and that inevitably includes some (read: many) bad decisions &ndash; especially when it comes to dating. In your &hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":92011,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"syndication_tool_enabled":true,"syndication_tool_title":"","syndication_tool_excerpt":"","syndication_tool_featured_image":0,"syndication_tool_publish_date":"","syndication_tool_schema_types":["gallery"],"syndication_tool_backlink_enable":false,"syndication_tool_ai_disclosure_enable":false,"disable-in-feed":false,"article-schema-type":"Article","disable-critical-css":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[181],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-91993","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91993","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=91993"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91993\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":92621,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91993\/revisions\/92621"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92011"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=91993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=91993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=91993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}