{"id":94080,"date":"2025-12-03T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2025-12-03T15:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/?p=94080"},"modified":"2025-12-03T10:58:58","modified_gmt":"2025-12-03T08:58:58","slug":"do-you-want-love-or-do-you-just-want-to-get-picked-heres-the-difference","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/do-you-want-love-or-do-you-just-want-to-get-picked-heres-the-difference\/","title":{"rendered":"Do You Want Love or Do You Just Want to Get Picked? Here&#8217;s the Difference"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-8::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-8{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-9::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-9{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-10::before{padding-top:100%; }img#mv-trellis-img-10{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p>There&rsquo;s a question that quietly sits beneath a lot of modern dating anxiety:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Do you genuinely want love, or do you just want someone&mdash;anyone&mdash;to choose you?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s not a shameful question. It&rsquo;s a human one. In a world built on swipes, algorithms, and performative affection, it&rsquo;s easy to confuse a desire for partnership with a desire to simply be &ldquo;wanted.&rdquo; But the difference matters, because each path leads to a completely different kind of relationship&mdash;and a completely different version of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&rsquo;s unpack the emotional nuance behind longing for love versus longing to be picked. The difference is subtle, but it&rsquo;s <em>\u3059\u3079\u3066<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. One Comes From Wholeness, the Other From Fear<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Do-You-Want-Love-or-Do-You-Just-Want-to-Get-Picked-Heres-the-Difference-1.jpg\" alt=\"One Comes From Wholeness, the Other From Fear\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"One Comes From Wholeness, the Other From Fear\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Do-You-Want-Love-or-Do-You-Just-Want-to-Get-Picked-Heres-the-Difference-1.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@jasmin-wedding-photography-619951\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; Jasmin Wedding Photography \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Wanting love is rooted in a sense of self-worth. Wanting to be picked is rooted in emotional scarcity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you want love, you are saying: <strong>&ldquo;I know who I am, and I&rsquo;m ready to share this with someone.&rdquo;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you want to be chosen, you&rsquo;re saying: <strong>&ldquo;I hope someone will tell me who I am by choosing me.&rdquo;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first expands you. The second shrinks you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Wanting Love Means You Have Standards<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/One-Comes-From-Wholeness-the-Other-From-Fear.jpg\" alt=\"Wanting Love Means You Have Standards\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Wanting Love Means You Have Standards\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/One-Comes-From-Wholeness-the-Other-From-Fear.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@seljansalim\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; Seljan  Salimova \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>If you want love, you have preferences, boundaries, compatibility checklists, and an inner compass that guides you. You&rsquo;re evaluating the <em>\u30d5\u30a3\u30c3\u30c8<\/em>, not just the attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wanting to be picked means you tend to morph, adjust, or dim parts of yourself to match whatever you think would be appealing. You&rsquo;re not choosing&mdash;you&rsquo;re auditioning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love says, <em>&ldquo;Does this relationship honor who I am?&rdquo;<\/em> Being picked says, <em>&ldquo;What version of me will get the yes?&rdquo;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Love Is Slow and Intentional. Being Picked Is Urgent and Anxious<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Wanting-Love-Means-You-Have-Standards.jpg\" alt=\"Love Is Slow and Intentional. Being Picked Is Urgent and Anxious\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Love Is Slow and Intentional. Being Picked Is Urgent and Anxious\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Wanting-Love-Means-You-Have-Standards.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@josh-hild-1270765\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; Josh Hild \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Love doesn&rsquo;t panic. It unfolds. It lets things take shape.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The desire to be chosen feels like emotional quicksand&mdash;rushed, pressured, tinged with anxiety. It&rsquo;s the reflex to text back immediately, to overlook red flags, to chase crumbs, and to settle for chemistry without connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One is patient. The other is panicked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Love Is About Two People. Being Picked Is About One Outcome<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Is-Slow-and-Intentional.-Being-Picked-Is-Urgent-and-Anxious.jpg\" alt=\"Love Is About Two People. Being Picked Is About One Outcome\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Love Is About Two People. Being Picked Is About One Outcome\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Is-Slow-and-Intentional.-Being-Picked-Is-Urgent-and-Anxious.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@eka-nugraha-2148786385\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; Eka Nugraha \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>When you want love, you&rsquo;re looking at the dynamic:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Do we communicate well?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do our values align?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do we make each other better?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When you want to be chosen, all you care about is whether they say &ldquo;yes&rdquo; to you. You&rsquo;re focused on the validation hit&mdash;not the relationship itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s less about partnership and more about proving something to yourself or others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Love Makes You Feel Safe. Being Picked Makes You Feel On Edge<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Is-About-Two-People.-Being-Picked-Is-About-One-Outcome.jpg\" alt=\"Love Makes You Feel Safe. Being Picked Makes You Feel On Edge\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Love Makes You Feel Safe. Being Picked Makes You Feel On Edge\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Is-About-Two-People.-Being-Picked-Is-About-One-Outcome.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@nil-alves-3223919\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; Nil Alves \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Love expands your nervous system&rsquo;s capacity for calm. It feels grounding, nourishing, reassuring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wanting to be chosen keeps you in survival mode. You&rsquo;re monitoring their energy constantly:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&ldquo;Are they losing interest?&rdquo;<br>&ldquo;Am I doing too much?&rdquo;<br>&ldquo;Why haven&rsquo;t they replied?&rdquo;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If the connection feels like a test, you&rsquo;re not seeking love&mdash;you&rsquo;re chasing approval.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Love Strengthens Your Identity. Being Picked Blurs It<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Makes-You-Feel-Safe.-Being-Picked-Makes-You-Feel-On-Edge.jpg\" alt=\"Love Strengthens Your Identity. Being Picked Blurs It\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Love Strengthens Your Identity. Being Picked Blurs It\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-6\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Makes-You-Feel-Safe.-Being-Picked-Makes-You-Feel-On-Edge.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@shotpot\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; ShotPot \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Love allows you to stay rooted in who you are. You remain you&mdash;just supported.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But when you&rsquo;re fixated on being chosen, your identity becomes fluid to the point of instability. You shrink, silence yourself, or play roles to keep someone&rsquo;s attention. You lose the connection to your own needs because you&rsquo;re too busy trying to meet theirs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love lets you stand tall. Being picked makes you bend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Wanting Love Is Future-Oriented. Wanting to Be Picked Is Moment-Oriented<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Strengthens-Your-Identity.-Being-Picked-Blurs-It.jpg\" alt=\"Wanting Love Is Future-Oriented. Wanting to Be Picked Is Moment-Oriented\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Wanting Love Is Future-Oriented. Wanting to Be Picked Is Moment-Oriented\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Strengthens-Your-Identity.-Being-Picked-Blurs-It.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@shvets-production\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; SHVETS production \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>If you want love, you&rsquo;re thinking about whether this connection has growth potential. You&rsquo;re imagining a life with someone, not just a moment of validation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to be picked, you&rsquo;re focused on right now&mdash;on the spark, the flirtation, the dopamine, the immediate feedback loop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One builds a foundation. The other just fills a void.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. Love Comes With Accountability. Being Picked Comes With Fantasy<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Wanting-Love-Is-Future-Oriented.-Wanting-to-Be-Picked-Is-Moment-Oriented.jpg\" alt=\"Love Comes With Accountability. Being Picked Comes With Fantasy\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Love Comes With Accountability. Being Picked Comes With Fantasy\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-8\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Wanting-Love-Is-Future-Oriented.-Wanting-to-Be-Picked-Is-Moment-Oriented.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@tirachard-kumtanom-112571\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; Tirachard Kumtanom \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>When you want love, you&rsquo;re willing to look at your own patterns: attachment style, triggers, boundaries, communication needs. You take responsibility for how you show up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you want to be picked, you&rsquo;re more likely to romanticize the idea of being chosen than the reality of partnership. You imagine a perfect moment, not the work that follows it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love asks for maturity. Being chosen asks for nothing except availability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">9. Love Requires That You Choose Back<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Comes-With-Accountability.-Being-Picked-Comes-With-Fantasy.jpg\" alt=\"Love Requires That You Choose Back\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"Love Requires That You Choose Back\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-9\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Comes-With-Accountability.-Being-Picked-Comes-With-Fantasy.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@pixabay\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; Pixabay \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>This is the biggest difference of all. Wanting love means <em>you choose them too<\/em>&mdash;thoughtfully, consciously, because they align with your soul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wanting to be picked means that the moment someone shows interest, you lean in before ever asking yourself: <strong>&ldquo;Do I actually want them?&rdquo;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love is mutual. Being picked is one-directional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">10. So&hellip; Which One Are You Really Wanting?<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Requires-That-You-Choose-Back.jpg\" alt=\"So&hellip; Which One Are You Really Wanting?\"><\/noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20300%20300'%3E%3Crect%20width='300'%20height='300'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"So&hellip; Which One Are You Really Wanting?\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-10\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Love-Requires-That-You-Choose-Back.jpg\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"lazyload\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">\n                Image Credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@marcus-aurelius\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">&copy; Marcus Aurelius \/ Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>If you recognize yourself in the desire to be chosen, don&rsquo;t judge yourself. It often comes from old wounds: not feeling seen, feeling replaceable, or growing up without models of stable affection. Most people go through seasons where they crave the security of being wanted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But here&rsquo;s the truth: <strong>Being chosen feels good for a moment. Being loved feels good for a lifetime.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One validates you. The other transforms you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&rsquo;s not about finding someone to pick you. It&rsquo;s about finding someone who sees you&mdash; and someone you&rsquo;re actually excited to choose right back.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&rsquo;s a question that quietly sits beneath a lot of modern dating anxiety: Do you genuinely want love, or do you just want someone&mdash;anyone&mdash;to choose &hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":94079,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"syndication_tool_enabled":true,"syndication_tool_title":"","syndication_tool_excerpt":"","syndication_tool_featured_image":0,"syndication_tool_publish_date":"","syndication_tool_schema_types":["gallery"],"syndication_tool_backlink_enable":false,"syndication_tool_ai_disclosure_enable":false,"disable-in-feed":false,"article-schema-type":"","disable-critical-css":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[181,179],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-94080","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships","category-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94080","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=94080"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94080\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":94105,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94080\/revisions\/94105"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94079"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=94080"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=94080"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/ja\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=94080"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}