What a man does when he doesn’t really love you

Is anything different in your relationship? But you can’t figure out what it is?

Do you feel strange when you’re around your partner?

Are there a lot of questions in your head at the moment?

If you realize that despite all your efforts, your relationship isn’t what it used to be and you feel like he’s no longer interested in you, it might be time to reevaluate the relationship.

Maybe it’s because you’ve done a lot for your relationship recently and your partner hasn’t put in as much effort?

Maybe you’re tired of doing all the work in the relationship on your own.

Maybe you want to convince yourself that everything is fine and as it used to be, even though your partner has distanced themselves completely?

There are certain signs that you should look out for that show that your boyfriend no longer loves you.

Be honest with yourself and look at the situation from an objective point of view.

It may start like this. Lately, he hasn’t been talking to you as much as usual.

He doesn’t talk about his life as much as he used to.

It’s more like he’s withdrawn; he doesn’t text or reply to your messages and when he does, he only replies with a monosyllabic “okay”.

He only replies because he thinks he has to.

You have the feeling that something has been lost in your relationship. You start to think that your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore.

Unfortunately, you may be right. But there’s also the possibility that you’ve made a mistake.

Are you also in this or a similar situation? Maybe you have the feeling that your husband is pushing you away and no longer wants to be with you, even if he hasn’t said so openly. Maybe you’ve noticed changes in him that you simply can’t explain.

In this article, we’ll tell you what a man does when he doesn’t really love you.

1. he’s on his cell phone all the time when you’re together

If he replies to a few messages or Snapchats, that’s probably fine.

Maybe you do the same when you’re with your boyfriend.

But, unfortunately, if he uses his phone too much, that can be a bad sign.

So, if he doesn’t look up from his screen the whole time you’re together, that’s a problem.

It may be that you are no longer interesting to him and that he doesn’t enjoy the time he spends with you as much as he used to.

This shows that he thinks what he’s doing on his phone is more important than the time you spend together.

2. he refuses to reconcile after an argument

Every couple argues. Even the most perfect couple you know has argued many times.

Don’t think that other couples don’t have conflicts if you’ve never seen them argue with each other.

Because it goes without saying that they wouldn’t argue on the street or in front of other people, but when they are at home and alone.

Many experts agree that arguing can actually be healthy for a relationship because it helps you understand your partner better and how they deal with conflict. That’s why it’s so important how he takes arguments between the two of you.

Besides, you’ll be even more like each other after an argument if you understand each other and make up in the end.

But what if he doesn’t try to reconcile with you at all after an argument?

How does he behave when you argue? Does he make the effort to listen to you and sort things out?

Does he just withdraw and do nothing because he knows that you will come back to him when you calm down?

Or does he leave the house or turn off his phone and refuse to listen to you? A man who loves you will want to make sure that your arguments are resolved and that you feel safe and heard.

3. he’s evasive when talking about the future

If you talk to him about the future, such as children, marriage and life circumstances, and he remains silent, this is one of the big subconscious signs that he doesn’t love you.

If he keeps trying to change the subject and talk about something else, that’s not a good sign.

If he loved you, he would know whether or not he sees children in your future, or if he wants to get married.

He would want to talk to you about it. Because he would have the same desires as you.

Don’t expect him to have these conversations when you’re still at the very beginning of your relationship. But if it’s been a while, there should at least be some conversations about the future.

4. everything about you gets on his nerves

He fell in love with your quirks and habits. He loved your zest for life, your passion, your habits… just everything about you.

He always admires you, no matter what you wear or what you do. He always sees the most beautiful things about you.

But now every little thing you say or do seems to irritate him. If your daily routine has started to annoy him, he may have lost a little love for you.

You annoy him no matter what you do. You annoy him even when you’re breathing.

And of course, that’s not a good sign.

He seems angry that you’re not the “perfect woman”. He has become snarky and disrespectful and even makes fun of some of your habits.

5 He never initiates anything between the two of you

Would he notice if you disappeared? Would he worry about you?

Does he notice when you’re sad and when you pull away?

Or would he just carry on as if nothing had happened? If you’re always the one looking out for him, making all the plans and the only one trying to keep your relationship going, then don’t waste any more time with him.

There has to be two sides to a relationship. You must never be the one trying to balance the two sides.

Because you can’t do it alone.

A relationship requires work from both sides. If you spend your days thinking about why he treats you badly, chances are he’s not in love with you.

6 You’re making it really easy for him

It’s not like you ever ask him for much, so he’s perfectly content to give you the bare minimum.

You’ve helped him set that limit. Because you’ve shown him that you’re happy with that, even in the beginning when everything was fine between you two.

If you never tell him what you expect from your relationship, he will only meet the low bar you’ve set for him, nothing more.

Even at the beginning of the relationship, you have to clearly show what you expect from a relationship and, of course, what you expect from your partner.

If he runs away the moment you try to talk about the future, you know that he only wanted to be with you as long as you don’t expect anything serious.

And don’t try to make excuses for him at all.

And we’ll continue with his excuses in the next section!

7. unnecessary excuses to avoid you

You used to love being together all the time, but now he’s annoyed with your every breath, not to mention hanging out together.

He keeps coming up with excuses to tell you to prevent the two of you from spending the evening together.

Also, if you’ve noticed that you somehow don’t run into each other even though you live in the same house, you should know that it’s not a coincidence. He may just be sending you an indirect signal that he wants to leave.

He may not know how else to show you that he is no longer interested or, on the other hand, he may not have the courage to do so.

He wants you to understand these signs yourself and withdraw on your own.

To avoid going out with you, he sometimes gives unnecessary excuses or makes up something that you can see through in most cases, of course. This is one of the more subtle signs that he no longer loves you.

If, after all these signs, you have realized that he may not love you anymore, then you know what you should do now.

You should at least tell him that you have recognized these signs and that he should stop trying to show it so clearly.

Talk to him about it and ask him to stop being the way you were before.

Take care of yourself and put yourself first.

Don’t let him think that you are dependent on him.

No, show him that you don’t need him in your life if he doesn’t want you in his life.

Later, he will realize what he had in his life and what he lost.

But, exactly… by then it will be too late and you will already be in another, happy relationship.

With someone who knows how to appreciate you.