{"id":111488,"date":"2026-05-22T16:30:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-22T14:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/?p=111488"},"modified":"2026-05-22T11:16:52","modified_gmt":"2026-05-22T09:16:52","slug":"12-marriages-regret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/zh\/12-marriages-regret\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Kinds of Marriages That Might Be Your Biggest Regret"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>img#mv-trellis-img-1::before{padding-top:66.69921875%; }img#mv-trellis-img-1{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-2::before{padding-top:56.34765625%; }img#mv-trellis-img-2{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-3::before{padding-top:66.69921875%; }img#mv-trellis-img-3{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-4::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-4{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-5::before{padding-top:66.69921875%; }img#mv-trellis-img-5{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-6::before{padding-top:66.69921875%; }img#mv-trellis-img-6{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-7::before{padding-top:66.666666666667%; }img#mv-trellis-img-7{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-8::before{padding-top:70%; }img#mv-trellis-img-8{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-9::before{padding-top:66.69921875%; }img#mv-trellis-img-9{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-10::before{padding-top:66.69921875%; }img#mv-trellis-img-10{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-11::before{padding-top:66.50390625%; }img#mv-trellis-img-11{display:block;}img#mv-trellis-img-12::before{padding-top:66.50390625%; }img#mv-trellis-img-12{display:block;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Marriage is often portrayed as the happy ending that culminates with a fairytale wedding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, a wedding is just a party. Marriage is what follows.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Choosing a life partner is one of the <strong>most important decisions<\/strong> of our lives, yet many people walk down the aisle for reasons that have nothing to do with love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People get swept up in lukewarm relationships, family pressure, biological clock, or financial concerns.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These marriages almost always become a decision they regret.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Immigration Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111547\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9.jpg 1071w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20683'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='683'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111547 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-1\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-1024x683.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-9.jpg 1071w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While it might seem like a solution to a very difficult problem, most people come to regret it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The pressure of legal scrutiny you face might make you resentful toward each other, even if you started out as friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You might also think that you can just divorce once the papers are set, but that&rsquo;s <strong>crucial years of your life<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People who choose to do this usually do so at the age when they could meet someone and get married for real.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, tying yourself legally to someone you don&rsquo;t know so well, in a foreign country, sounds like a very bad idea.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Expiry-Date Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111550\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"577\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-1024x577.jpg\" alt=\"bride regret\" class=\"wp-image-111550\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-1080x608.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-170x96.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"577\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20577'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='577'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"bride regret\" class=\"wp-image-111550 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-2\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-1024x577.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-18x10.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-728x410.jpg 728w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-480x270.jpg 480w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-320x180.jpg 320w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-960x541.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-1080x608.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-7-170x96.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is a marriage you enter under the pressure of your <strong>biological clock<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You set a deadline for yourself, like before you turn 30 or 35, and then scramble to find someone who would marry you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This sets you up for regret because you&rsquo;re not prioritizing connection or even attraction.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You vow to spend the rest of your life and raise a family with someone you potentially don&rsquo;t even like that much.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Initially, you feel a rush from hitting<strong> a milestone<\/strong>, but sooner or later, regret kicks in. You realize that if you&rsquo;d only give yourself a little more grace, you could have met the one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Rebound Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111544\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111544\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6.jpg 1125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20683'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='683'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111544 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-3\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-1024x683.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-6.jpg 1125w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A rebound marriage is a desperate attempt to heal a broken heart and get back at your ex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This usually happens soon after a painful breakup, and you often do it just to show the world that <strong>you&rsquo;ve moved on<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You aren&rsquo;t healed, and you&rsquo;re not even looking at your new partner clearly. Regret is almost inevitable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You end up using them for validation, which isn&rsquo;t fair to either of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once the dust settles, you&rsquo;re left with a realization that you didn&rsquo;t even want them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You chose a permanent solution for a<strong> temporary problem<\/strong>, instead of allowing yourself to get over your ex naturally.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Exit Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111541\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1008\" height=\"672\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1.jpg 1008w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1008\" height=\"672\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201008%20672'%3E%3Crect%20width='1008'%20height='672'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111541 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-4\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1.jpg 1008w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-1-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Though many people come to regret this marriage, at the time, it looks like their <strong>only salvation<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These people are typically stuck in a toxic family dynamic, unable to get away except through marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They typically marry the first person they date, and that relationship is nothing more than an escape route to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While it&rsquo;s important to get out of a bad environment, running into the arms of another person whom you don&rsquo;t know too well isn&rsquo;t much of a solution, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You&rsquo;re using them, and besides, who&rsquo;s to say they&rsquo;re not just as toxic?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Sympathetic Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111548\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20683'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='683'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111548 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-5\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-1024x683.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-3-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A sympathetic marriage is one where you say &ldquo;I do&rdquo; because <strong>you feel bad<\/strong> for your future spouse.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They might have been trying long and hard to win you over, or they have certain issues that lead you to pity them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This choice leads not only to regret, but to resentment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sooner or later, you&rsquo;ll realize that it&rsquo;s impossible to turn pity into romantic love. There&rsquo;s a gross <strong>imbalance of power<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the end, you deny yourself a chance to be happy because you tried to be a savior.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Evangelistic Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111545\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4.jpg 1026w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20683'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='683'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111545 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-6\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-1024x683.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-4.jpg 1026w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is a trap many people fall into, often against the advice of their loved ones.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They fall in love with someone who doesn&rsquo;t share their core <strong>values or religion<\/strong>, and then spend the marriage trying to convert them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You think your love is so powerful that it will change their fundamental beliefs. This is very unfair to them. No one should get to control what we choose to believe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Regret comes once you realize that you married them for their potential to be exactly what you want.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When they don&rsquo;t change &ndash; and they likely won&rsquo;t &ndash; you become disillusioned.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Missionary Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111543\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1008\" height=\"672\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5.jpg 1008w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1008\" height=\"672\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201008%20672'%3E%3Crect%20width='1008'%20height='672'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111543 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-7\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5.jpg 1008w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-5-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The missionary marriage is based on a dangerous delusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is when you ignore <strong>dysfunctional<\/strong> \u548c <strong>abusive<\/strong> behavior, believing that getting married will somehow give you more leverage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Regret comes once you realize that the ring changes nothing, after all. If a relationship isn&rsquo;t thriving to begin with, getting married won&rsquo;t fix it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you enter this union with a mission to <strong>save someone<\/strong> from themselves, you only risk damaging your own mental health and well-being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. Proximity Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111542\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"525\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8.jpg 750w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8-300x210.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8-170x119.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"525\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%20750%20525'%3E%3Crect%20width='750'%20height='525'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111542 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-8\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8.jpg 750w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8-300x210.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-8-170x119.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many people marry for convenience. A proximity marriage happens when you marry someone simply because you spend a lot of time together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe you were friends or high school sweethearts, and so, one thing leads to another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&rsquo;s like you could be happier with someone else, but this person has become a part of your <strong>\u8212\u9002\u533a<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don&rsquo;t want to risk your peace of mind for a chance to find true love.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Somewhere down the line, you end up realizing that you held on to familiarity so tightly that you never got to experience real connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&rsquo;s when regret comes into the picture.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">9. Accidental Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111546\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10.jpg 1119w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20683'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='683'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111546 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-9\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-1024x683.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-10.jpg 1119w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This marriage happens as a result of an <strong>unplanned pregnancy<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They&rsquo;re not as popular now, since co-parenting isn&rsquo;t as stigmatized, but they still happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In some cases, two people actually love each other and would get married either way. But in others, you end up making a life-long decision based on a circumstance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These marriages often have a higher rate of <strong>\u4e0d\u6ee1<\/strong> \u548c <strong>divorce<\/strong> because they never had a strong foundation to begin with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&rsquo;s almost certain you&rsquo;ll come to regret it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">10. Financial Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-111549\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111549\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20683'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='683'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-111549 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-10\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-1024x683.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/marriage-regret-2-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Marrying just so you could solve your financial problems spells disaster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You end up <strong>commoditizing yourself<\/strong> and the institution of marriage.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While the luxury might be fun for a while, the price most people pay is their autonomy, dignity, and, of course, love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Regret is inevitable because this dynamic invites control and disrespect.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No amount of luxury possessions can make up for the genuine security and connection you feel with someone you actually care about.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">11. Manipulated Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-99399\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"681\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-1024x681.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-99399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-1024x681.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-960x639.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-1080x719.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-170x113.jpg 170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"681\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20681'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='681'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-99399 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-11\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-1024x681.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-1024x681.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-960x639.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-1080x719.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-7-170x113.jpg 170w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We&rsquo;ve all had friends and family tell us what a good couple another person and we would make.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In some circles, these suggestions are taken more seriously. They often come with <strong>pressure and arrangements<\/strong> that corner the couple until they agree to marry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not everyone comes to regret it. A minority of people are lucky enough to meet their ideal partner this way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, many of these marriages never recover from the fact that they began in such a manipulative way; that the partners didn&rsquo;t choose each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There&rsquo;s no connection or desire between the couple, only duty to family.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">12. Uninformed Marriage<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-99397\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"681\" src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-1024x681.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-99397\" srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-1024x681.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-960x639.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6.jpg 1064w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\"><\/noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"681\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg'%20viewBox='0%200%201024%20681'%3E%3Crect%20width='1024'%20height='681'%20style='fill:%23e3e3e3'\/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-99397 lazyload\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) calc(100vw - 40px), 728px\" data-pin-media=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6.jpg\" id=\"mv-trellis-img-12\" data-src=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-1024x681.jpg\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-1024x681.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-960x639.jpg 960w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6-170x113.jpg 170w, https:\/\/angelynum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/wedding-date-num-6.jpg 1064w\" data-trellis-processed=\"1\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/search\/drinking%20alcohol\/?orientation=landscape\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&copy; Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This might be the most <strong>common regret<\/strong> of all.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">An uninformed marriage is one where you dive in blindly, failing to ask important questions and observe the person&rsquo;s patterns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You&rsquo;re in love with the idea of love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These marriages often happen quickly after the couple starts dating. They still don&rsquo;t know each other&rsquo;s core issues, family history, triggers, values&hellip;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u4ed6\u4eec <strong>only have attraction<\/strong>, and while that&rsquo;s important, it can sustain a relationship only for so long.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Entering a marriage without truly knowing your partner sets you up for conflict and confusion down the line, and potentially, danger.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Marriage is often portrayed as the happy ending that culminates with a fairytale wedding. However, a wedding is just a party. 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