There are things in life that seem as if they were planned that way from the start.
You just have the feeling that this relationship is the right one. A relationship you’ve really been waiting for.
When you finally meet someone you can really commit to, you inevitably wonder if the relationship is really meant to be.
When you meet your better half and feel like the world has finally come into balance, it’s easy to assume that this person is meant just for you – but how can you tell?
Finding your soulmate is one of the most magical events that you can only experience once in a lifetime.
The signs can be subtle, or they can be especially obvious for couples who are meant to be together.
In this article, we’ll show you 5 signs that you’re meant to be together.
1. you have many common interests
Shared interests are important if you want to spend your whole life with someone.
Shared passions for sports, hobbies or culinary delights.
Whether it’s a sport, cooking or something else, the main thing is that you share these interests and have fun together.
Whether it’s skiing, dog sports or pepperoni and peanut butter sandwiches. Even if it seems unusual to other people, all that matters is that you and your partner spend time together and enjoy it.
You and your partner will always have a common ground to come back to.
If you don’t know what to do anymore or if you want to improve your relationship, time spent together in an interesting activity is always a good thing.
This is a good sign for the longevity of your relationship.
2. you are open and honest and have no secrets
We all know how important communication is in any relationship. Whether it’s a romantic relationship or perhaps work colleagues, communication is key to a stable and healthy relationship.
Communication is the most important thing in a relationship. When the chips are down and you’re not on the same page, you need to be able to work things out with words.
You also need to always be open and honest and discuss things immediately before it’s too late.
You need to feel in your relationship that you can tell your partner anything, no matter what it is about.
You both need to know that you can count on each other if things go wrong.
Your partner should be the first person you want to share both good and bad news with.
Because without communication, your relationship can’t last.
When you talk to each other, you deepen and strengthen your bond.
You will be able to feel how you love each other even more and enjoy the time you spend together even more.
If you can’t do that, the relationship won’t last.
And communication is not something that happens by itself.
You need to work on finding the way that you can both get along best.
3. same morals and values
If you’re with someone, you’ll probably want to start a family at some point – or not.
Whatever you decide is right for you, but it must also be right for your partner.
Because a relationship cannot be successful if, for example, one partner wants children and the other does not.
It will work up to a certain point and then one of you will have to decide whether to change your mind or end the relationship.
Maybe you want to live together straight away, or maybe you just want to stay friends for a while.
But you both have to want that.
Being with someone means that you want to share your life with someone other than yourself.
And by sharing your life, you also share everything else.
It’s important that you have the same values and morals so that you’re both on the same wavelength when it comes to what’s important in life and what’s not.
This is another sign that you are both meant for each other and that you have a chance to spend your whole lives together,
4. you never have to try to be something else
Even with your closest friends, sometimes you have to play a role that isn’t quite you.
On the other hand, you won’t tell them every detail of your life. You will always keep something to yourself.
You may want to present yourself in your best light to other people.
You look in the mirror and hope you look the way you want to look, you watch your words and pretend to like or dislike certain things just to fit in.
You want you to present yourself well and for others to get a good impression of you and that’s okay too.
We do so many little things to tiptoe through the world, often without even realizing it.
But when you’re with the person you’re meant to be with, all that self-consciousness is blown away.
You’ll act just like you are and you’ll feel extra good and relaxed about it!
None of it matters anymore because your heart knows that they love you just the way you are.
5. your partner is your safe place
They are the only person you can share everything with. You can talk about your hopes, dreams, failures and secrets.
This person makes you feel like a little girl who needs security and who also feels safe.
When you are with the right person, you can say everything openly without fear of judgment.
You can open your heart and really tell everything without thinking about whether this person will understand you or not.
Because they will definitely understand you.
Ho sempre sentito una forte connessione con il Divino fin dalla mia nascita. Come autrice e mentore, la mia missione è aiutare gli altri a trovare l'amore, la felicità e la forza interiore nei momenti più bui.