Dating is always exciting and getting into a relationship means having a brand new, shiny person in your life.
We’ve all wanted to impress our significant other when we started dating them. We bend over backward just so they can see that we are 那个人.
After some time this can turn toxic and we fall into destructive patterns 和 例行公事.
Your current partner and your exes can be as different as day and night, and yet, you still fight about the same things and you have the same issues.
The common denominator here is 你.
Your Zodiac sign can give you an insight into who you’re compatible with, so why can’t it tell you what you’re doing wrong in your relationships?
Spoiler alert: it CAN. Find your sign in the list below and find out how you might be ruining your relationship and how to save it!
Worst Dating Habits According to Your Zodiac Sign
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
白羊座 is very direct by nature and they have a childlike approach to life. They go about everything with their 激情 和 本能.
While this passion is an excellent addition to their dating life, they’re also famous for their temper tantrums.
这 temper makes them say things they often regret later on, but when they cool down it’s like nothing ever happened.
Not everyone wants to put up with it though, so you may want to dial down on those tantrums or else you’ll lose the most important person in your life.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Tauruses are very stubborn people. They love their systems, routines 和 daily habits.
They’re also very 忠诚 和 承诺. Once they make their mind up on something or someone, they’re in it till the end.
While this loyalty deserves congratulations, Tauruses need to realize that people and situations don’t remain the same, they are changeable and a certain amount of flexibility is welcome.
As a Taurus, if you are too rigid and stiff, this can cause a 严重 dent in your relationship.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Geminis thrive in fast-paced environments. They love to have multiple hobbies, tasks and obligations, because they love to have things going on in their lives.
And even though they miraculously maintain this hectic lifestyle that also means that they can’t concentrate on one thing at a time.
This is, obviously, a problem when it comes to dating.
Serious relationships require 承诺 和 忠诚度, which Gemini can’t always provide.
When a Gemini is in a relationship, they need to get their priorities straight, or else the relationship is doomed.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancers are famous for their 敏感的 和 fickle personalities, with a tendency to be moody out of nowhere.
Their symbol is a crab, and like a crab they protect their soft insides with a hard exterior. When they sense danger they pinch with their claws.
In relationships, they should remember that miscommunication happens.
Just because you fought with your partner doesn’t mean that they hate your guts.
Be careful not to isolate yourself from them when angry, because your partner may not want to stay.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Leos are represented by the lion, meaning they 爱 to be in the spotlight.
When you’re giving them attention, they’re cuddly and warm. But the moment they feel like they’re being overshadowed, they show their teeth.
They may become overly jealous, possessive and controlling, which will accomplish nothing except make their partner leave them.
As a Leo, you need to let your partner shine 不时地。
Share the spotlight with them and enjoy the amazing relationship you’ll have after doing this.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgos are very 顺理成章 和 观察者 people. This helps them in many aspects of life. In the workplace, these are ideal traits to have.
But in their dating life, they aren’t helpful and they can even cause trouble.
Every couple has 分歧, but Virgos can’t seem to accept this.
They want everything to be 完美 and when it isn’t they’re trying to fix things.
Virgos need to realize that not everything can be controlled, because when you constantly criticize someone, they won’t like you anymore.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Libras are always seeking out a partner, they love to have someone next to them.
As their symbol is the scales, they love harmony and equality, so they avoid petty arguments and conflict.
While this may seem amazing, it can also be the reason of their 沦落.
I’m not saying you should constantly fight with your partner, but a little dialogue about certain things that may bother you is 健康!
If you bottle these feelings up, you will gradually become nasty and bitter, until you reach a breaking point.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpios love to keep their feelings for themselves and they rarely show them. It’s hard for them to open up and let someone peek into their heart, but if you manage this, you’re locked in for life.
But if they sense that you aren’t as into the relationship as they are, they can become 拥有者 和 多疑.
They’ll start fighting with you to see the limit that they can go to.
Scorpios need to realize that people who are in relationships are still allowed to be 独立的, and if they don’t let up, they might deal a deadly blow to their relationship.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius loves to be independent. They love going out, traveling and just doing whatever their heart desires basically.
When they are dating, nothing changes because they 从来没有 compromise.
They do, however, expect you to be their passenger princess on these journeys. But not everyone wants to live the life of Indiana Jones.
When they’re in a relationship, Sagittariuses need to realize that doing regular-people things with your partner doesn’t mean that the relationship is boring.
You can go to the grocery store with your person and still have a blast!
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorns are the badass bosses of the Zodiac. They are very 重点关注 and they know what they want.
When dating they’re only interested in 长期关系. But they expect you to have the same drive and mentality about work as they do.
Even though the ‘权力夫妇‘ situation is admirable, pushing your partner into working overtime when they don’t need to is just cruel, and it raises tensions and resentment.
Everyone moves at their own pace and Capricorn needs to accept this, because if you push your partner over the edge, you lose your ride-or-die.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Aquariuses love making new friends and being around people, but they’re also very interested in humanity altogether.
They are extremely passionate about equality and justice.
While these interests are very admirable, Aquarius needs to watch how much energy they spend on these causes.
Paying attention to your partner may not save the world, but it will definitely save your relationship!
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
双鱼座 are represented by two fish swimming in different directions.
When you are just dating a Pisces the waters are calm and everything is beautiful, the sun is shining and the birds are chirping.
Being in a relationship with them is 另一个 story completely.
The calm water turns into waves, clouds block the sky and the birds scatter about.
They live in their own world and it’s very hard to confront them about certain things since they just walk away, as if your opinions aren’t valid.
When dating, Pisces need to come to terms with the fact that their world isn’t the only one out there.
Accepting their partner’s views and communicating is the key to success.
Take it Easy
Dating can be hard, especially when you’re not compatible with the person you’re seeing.
But it also won’t be all smooth sailing with the ones you 是 compatible with.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself and the person you’re dating.
Take it easy and enjoy the ride.
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